This volume is about the world outside your front door.
Six volumes of inward work. Naming the storm. Mapping the architecture. Defining the loop. Repositioning yourself as the primary therapeutic agent of your child's healing. Rebuilding your own nervous system from the wreckage of years of unwitnessed crisis. Constructing the Therapeutic Home - the environment itself as clinical intervention. All of it necessary. None of it sufficient on its own.
Because the family does not exist in isolation. The family exists inside systems. The school system, which holds your child for six hours a day and generates official records about them whether or not those records are accurate. The mental health system, which refers you to clinicians who may or may not have the clinical training this child's presentation requires. The family court system, which has legal authority over your family's structure and operates on a framework of credibility assessment that this child can manipulate with terrifying precision. The child welfare system, which can be activated by a single phone call from a child who has learned how to use institutional power against the adults who care for them. The residential treatment industry, which operates with widely variable quality, inconsistent regulation, and marketing language designed to reach parents at their most desperate.